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Two wrongs don’t make a right: Is the Church handing its authority to no-fault divorce courts?

Two wrongs don’t make a right: Is the Church handing its authority to no-fault divorce courts?

  • Posted by Mary's Advocates
  • On January 12, 2016
  • 4 Comments
  • 1692, catholic, divorce, family, marriage

by Bai Macfarlane,
This article was first published at LifeSite News on January 12, 2016

When Catholic cardinals propose that those in second unions should be able to receive Holy Communion, the Church appears to be proposing that two wrongs make a right. We hear about giving Communion to people that are objectively living in adultery (which is wrong), but we are not hearing about the Church’s involvement in the first wrong which occurred when the first marriage broke up.

Marriages break up when one our both spouses decide to separate, for any number of reasons. Church tradition shows that Catholics are not to hand over their marital disputes, outright, to the civil courts. But on November 4, a cardinal at the Vatican’s canon law council provided a new and different spin on the interpretation of the Code of Canon Law, that appears to have gone unnoticed.

Francesco Cardinal Coccopalmerio, president of the Pontifical Council of Legislative Texts, virtually eliminated the universal canonical restraint on a spouse’s freedom to abandon marriage and file for divorce. He did so with a Riposte Particolori which was his particular response to a question from an unnamed bishop asking about canon law. The bishop asked whether a Catholic is required to get the bishop’s permission before filing for civil divorce. Cardinal Coccopalmerio’s particular response has less authority than an Interpretandis (interpretation) which must be confirmed by the Pope.

During the first bishops’ Synod on the Family, Crux reporter John Allen Jr. quoted Cardinal Coccopalmerio in October 2014 showing that the cardinal favored giving Holy Communion to some divorced and remarried Catholics. Allen wrote that Cardinal Coccopalmerio, “offered the example of a woman who married a man outside the Church whose first wife walked out on him, leaving him to care for three children. ‘She cannot abandon that union or those children,’ Coccopalmerio said. ‘In these cases, we have to do something.’”

As director of Mary’s Advocates, the non-profit organization upholding marriage, I have been publicizing the canon law about separation of spouses and divorce. For years, our educational materials have highlighted that canon law requires a Catholic to have the bishop’s permission before filing for civil divorce. When I saw Cardinal Coccopalmerio’s response, I wrote him asking him to reconsider and posted my letter on our website. A sample letter for others to send is included on the last page of the website. For his convenience, I attached an 18-page appendix showing the records of the consulters who drafted the procedural canons on separation of spouse.

I am asking him to reconsider his response wherein he stated, “In practice, this means that where there is no particular legislation or concordat to direct otherwise, and where the ecclesiastical decision has no civil effects (cf. c. 1692 §2 CIC), the local bishop’s permission would not be an obligation whether juridical or moral.”

Cardinal Coccopalmerio seems to be saying this:

If there is no provision (for example USCCB law stating bishop’s permission is required), then a Catholic is not required to get bishop’s permission.

But others sources (see below) have suggested something quite different:

Unless there is a provision (for example, USCCB law stating the bishop’s permission is not required), then a Catholic is required to get permission.

Of importance to the Church is whether an ecclesiastic decision about separation of spouses (including any arrangements for mutual financial help and parenting) could have an effect in the civil forum. The mere fact that one forum has no arranged acceptance of the Church’s teaching and law, seems a ridiculous basis for granting permission for all Catholics to go to the said forum for instruction and implementation of said forum’s plan. For example, consider Planned Parenthood’s abortion practices. The Church’s canon law regarding abortion has no effect on the advice given by Planned Parenthood. If the Church were to give permission for a Catholic to approach Planned Parenthood for that reason alone, the Church would tacitly be condoning abortion.

An obvious problem in delegating marital disputes to the civil courts is the fact that the western no-fault divorce courts see no obligation for couples to maintain an intact home. No-fault divorce courts see no obligation for the one causing a marital break up to uphold his full obligation to support the marital home. Moreover, the courts have no interest in protecting children from scandal given when a parent is practicing gravely sinful behavior.

Plenty of fair-minded men would only agree to start raising children with a wife who promised to cooperate with him in raising those children in an intact home, and promised to stay with him through old age “till death do us part.” These men, rightly sense that an injustice occurs when a woman withdraws from marriage, even though her husband has done nothing grave, like dangerously abusing her, or committing adultery. The canon law restricting a Catholic from filing for divorce without the bishop’s permission could be instrumental in protecting these men from unjust divorce decrees sought by their Catholic wives. Implementing the canon law could help a disgruntled wife choose to work with those experienced helping couples, rather than paying divorce lawyers.

In 1984, the Vatican’s Publishing House published, “The Cases of Separation of Spouses according to the New Code,” in which they said that “if the service of assistance [for those who find themselves in conflictive matrimonial situations] does not exist, it must be created.”

This interpretation of canon 1692 §2 publicized by Mary’s Advocates, requiring the bishop’s permission before filing for civil divorce, is found in other source. Some of these were included in my plea to Cardinal Coccopalmerio.

  • 1971: Vatican’s Commission for the Reorganization of the Code of Canon Law. See “Concerning the competence for judging these kinds of cases.” die 19 aprilis 1971.
  • 1976: Vatican’s Commission for the Reorganization of the Code of Canon Law. See “draft principles.” Die 3 novembris 1976.
  • 1979: Vatican’s Commission for the Reorganization of the Code of Canon Law. See “all the consultors considered that this title is not able to be absent from the general law, considering the competence of the Church in cases of separation of spouses” [translation].
  • 1984: Vatican’s Publishing House Liberia Editrice Vaticana. Paper originally in Spanish “The Cases of Separation of Spouses according to the New Code.” See “require the previous permission of the Bishop” page 391.
  • 2008: Article in Canon Law journal Bangalore, India by Rev. Phillip Brown, who became the President of the Canon Law Society of America in 2013. Find “ecclesiastical authority whose permission is required” page 247.
  • 2004: University of Navarra Annotation originally in Spanish and published in English with an endorsement from His Eminence Julian Cardinal Herranz, former President of the Pontifical Council for Legislative Texts. See canon 1692, “Since divorce laws have proliferated in many countries, the need to request the diocesan bishop’s authorization is a necessary precaution, which prevents the fostering of trials whose judgments [(Mary’s Advocates’ note) government civil court judgements] violate precepts of divine law, to the detriment of the spouses and with the risk of scandal to others.”
  • 1880: Pope Leo XIII Arcanum. See “sever the matrimonial contract from the sacrament, with intent to hand over the contract to the power and will of the rulers of the State, … A distinction, or rather severance, of this kind cannot be approved.”

Bai Macfarlane is director of Mary’s Advocates, an organization dedicated to strengthening marriage, eliminating forced no-fault divorce, and supporting those who have been unjustly abandoned by their spouse.

 

4 Comments

Joan
  • Jan 12 2025
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Some couples living together without marriage believe their commitment is equal to a formal marriage ceremony. If the couple has a child , the mom has physical custody though the dad has 50 % of custody though not 50 % physical custody ,unless the Mom agrees in a legal document. Even when the DAD is named on the birth certificate the state does not recognize 50% of physical custody. If the couple separates ,Physical custody could become a serious concern. So if the DAD wants more custody he must get this certificate from the court. This would allow him to take the child over night 50 % of the time. If courts now decide on validity of marriage ,as they do in no Fault Divorce States, it seems the State is gaining more intrusion and authority into the family when we waive our already God Give authority.
Nathaniel
  • Jan 12 2025
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Just to clarify, I was the only one who endured the physical abuse while both my two older children and me were subject to her ever increasing amounts of verbal abuse. I wanted nothing more than to stand by her through what she was going through and would have done anything to save our marriage and our family. In return, emboldened by the near assurance of an easily obtained "act of charity", my beloved wife and best friend simply left our home to find the "quiet" she now craved and a new romantic partner to satiate her continued need for "love". "After all", she reasons, "its not really adultery if we were never truly married".
Nathaniel
  • Jan 12 2025
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Agreed on all fronts. My wife suffered a mental breakdown after birthing our two children during the "Covid Pandemic and became physically and verbally abusive towards me and our two older children. Though I took on the majority of the feedings (from my wife's pumping), diaper changes, housecleaning, grocery shopping and the like (while also maintaining my full time employment) she eventually just decided to leave our home, claim abuse (which stings when they quite literally had become an abuser), refuse counseling and file for divorce (in progress now)- encouraged by gaining the full confidence that "she can get an annulment because almost anyone can" after talking with a priest. It trafically and fundamentally shakes one's faith. Not in our Holy Lord, of course - but in the Catholic Church's ability to protect those truly fighting for their marriages and their families.
Garrick Small
  • Mar 5 2022
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Excellent arguments. Easy separation is now a scourge across the Catholic community and almost no Catholics are aware that its prevention is actually within canon law.

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