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Exposing Annulment Corruption

Exposing Annulment Corruption

  • Posted by Mary's Advocates
  • On April 25, 2020
  • 10 Comments

by Bai Macfarlane
Something is wrong with the many annulments being granted by Catholic tribunals in the United States. Mary’s Advocates is helping defendants drain the swamp.

During the past several weeks, I’ve helped defendants in two different dioceses bring complaints to the Holy See exposing negligence which appears systemic in their tribunal. The diocesan websites and form-letters to defendants show the tribunals are not upholding the rights of defense for those who believe that their marriages are valid.  I show defendants how to send their paper-record to offices in the Holy See responsible for overseeing Tribunals throughout the world: The Supreme Tribunal of the Signatura and the Roman Rota.

Most recently, I showed a defendant how he could ask the Signatura to study the vigilance of the tribunal and issue precepts (see excerpts here).  In the photo, I’m showing his exhibits. Among other things, he complained that tribunal personnel keep hidden from defendants the essence of the accusation being weighed by the judge. The most commonly used ground for annulment used by U.S. tribunals is canon 1095 §2, which actually means that one party had a serious psychic anomaly or grave psychopathology at the time of their wedding.* Instead of informing defendants of the essence of what is being weighed, the tribunal personnel provide incorrect information which is misleading, erroneous, and even deceptive. Had the husband known the principle question being investigated (i.e. someone’s mental illness), he would have participated much differently.

He was aggrieved by a judgement from an influential canon lawyer priest who got a doctorate in canon law in 1981. This was a tumultuous time for canon law because everyone knew that the canon law was being reorganized as a result of recommendations stemming from Vatican II.  Those wanting the Church to be lax were hoping that the new canon law would change the longstanding grounds for annulment.

Cardinal Raymond Burke teaches about “The Relation between the Apostolic Signatura and the Particular Churches.” About the practices of US Tribunals from 1971 to 1983, Cardinal Burke said, “the poor quality of many first instance sentences examined by the Signatura, together with the evident lack of any serious review on the part of some appellate tribunals, demonstrated the grave damage done to the process of declaration of nullity of marriage by the effective omission of the second instance during those years” [Source: Burke, Cardinal Raymond L.. “The Relation between the Apostolic Signatura and the Particular Churches.” The Jurist 74 (2014): 31-57. pg. 55]

Saint Pope John Paul II, Pope Benedict XVI, and Cardinal Raymond Burke cautioned against tribunals being lax. Ignatius Press described abuses in Homiletic and Pastoral Review in 1995, 2001,  and 2005.  More recently, Fr. David Nix (Aug 29, 2017) and Professor Anthony Esolen (June 19, 2020) voiced concerns. Catholic Author, Leila Miller says that “among our clergy and counselors, there is a near-universal ‘divorce, annul, and move on’” mindset.  Miller’s most recent book, ’Impossible’ Marriages Redeemed: They Didn’t End the Story in the Middle, tells the stories of dozens of couples who overcame marriage crises and provided an intact family for their children.  One of her contributors wrote,

Over the years, I consulted with up to six different priests while going through a tough time in our marriage. Each one said I had grounds for an annulment, and that he would help me through the process. The last time I consulted a priest was about 15 years ago, and this one said the same thing. I told him I did not want a divorce or an annulment, but rather to stay married and find meaning in my situation. He said that in his experience of witnessing marriages in an ongoing crisis like mine, healing was impossible.

Those who want to uphold the validity of their marriage are in a difficult situation if they are in a diocese that accepts every petition and issues annulments in 100% of their decisions.  The Canon Law Society of America shows that over one third of the reporting tribunals grant annulments in every case. Find 2016 data here that also shows most dioceses adjudicate the case of every petitioner.  Of those, here is a sampling of the dioceses which grant the highest number of annulments.

Diocese In favor of the Bond In favor of nullity
Cleveland 1 247
Rockville Centre 0 227
Wichita 2 187
Raleigh 0 168
Kansas City in Kansas 1 159
Boston 1 157
Louisville 0 137
Columbus 3 133

Canon law requires a tribunal to offer free advocates to parties. An advocate is supposed to have a doctorate in canon law or be a recognized expert in canon law.  “[T]he tribunal is bound by the obligation to provide that each spouse is able to defend his rights with the help of a competent person, most especially when it concerns causes of a special difficulty” (D.C. art. 101 §1). However, if the Tribunal is overseen by a canon lawyer judge from the era in which there were poor quality of sentences issued, it is imaginable that the tribunal cannot provide an advocate who is fastidious about correctly protecting the rights of a defendant who intends to uphold the validity of his marriage. Some tribunals have all the day-to-day correspondence with parties managed by laypeople who only know what they were taught by their predecessors.

Unlike tax accountants or plumbers, independent canon law experts are not readily available for hire. Degreed canon lawyers that are employed full time to work for one diocese might not be available for hire to challenge the practice of another diocese. I’m a self-studied expert in canon law, and those helped by the resources of Mary’s Advocates say they are grateful to find us. I wonder if there is a mentality of circling of the wagons amongst the canon lawyers employed by dioceses that are happy with the status quo.

* NOTE
Saint Pope John Paul II, Address to the Roman Rota: 25 January 1988, “Bearing in mind that only the most severe forms of psychopathology impair substantially the freedom of the individual;” 5 February 1987, “The hypothesis of real incapacity is to be considered only when an anomaly of a serious nature is present, which, however it may be defined, must substantially vitiate the capacity of the individual to understand and/or to will.”

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10 Comments

Diana blake
  • Apr 28 2025
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I feel I have been deeply betrayed by the church. My husband committed adultery which of course he wasn't going to admit to the tribunal. He only wanted the annulment because the woman he slept with worked in the catholic system as a teacher and she needed that annulment. The kids were 4 and 6 at the time. Mind you after he remarried to his mistress he never saw his kids again as he had another 2 kids with mistress. the irony was he managed to convince the tribunal that I wasn't fit for marriage. I never left our kids and I love them dearly. I have carried this pain for 20 years and it's upsetting that the tribunal believed a very deceptive and immoral man. I'm only catholic because I love Jesus's so much and Mother Mary.
Mary's Advocates
  • Dec 23 2021
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Hi Bob, You wrote, "but it is not a litigation like divorce court." If the process is done according to canon law, it is a litigation. One party makes an assertion that the marriage is invalid for certain grounds. The other party and witnesses are invited to give testimony. Both parties see all the testimony and give rebuttal testimony.
Bob
  • Dec 3 2021
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Lisa, I have to concur here. The original post exaggerates on this point. To be honest, do you really expect there to be 1000 doctors of canon law just sitting around? Most canonists who sit on the tribunal have their licentiate or masters (equivalent of a JD in civil law). Diocese and priests no doubt spent considerable time on sacramental theology. The original post sort of undercuts this as well. At the end of the day, an annulment case is technically in an ecclesiastical court, but it is not a litigation like divorce court. It is the examination of a theological hypothesis, based on evidence presented. Theological methodology accompanies canon law here. I would conclude by saying that the adults of today are not exactly the adults who grew up during the depression, World War II, for in the early days of the Cold War. They grew up in a crucible and had the wisdom that followed.
Noelia Donamaria
  • May 7 2021
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I have had a similar experience. My adulterous former husband - his name is Matthew [redacted] - who has been committing adultery and sleeping as well as living with his mistress - Monica [redacted] - requested an annulment. She knew he was a married man and has no issue sleeping and living with him. He abandoned me, left our church, refused reconciliation and has been having sex and living with the mistress for quite some time. The church refused to provide me with any information. How corrupt can the Catholic church be? I will be taking legal action against the local Diocese of Peoria. And for the Catholic church to blaspheme God in this manner is atrocious. God says He hates divorce, and that the only reason for divorce is sexual sin/adultery. For the Catholic church to come up with a bunch of made up ways to get around the permanency of marriage and the sanctity of marriage for economical reasons, is shocking. And for the church to violate another spouse - is even more unimaginable. To suggest that "immaturity" is a reason for a marriage to not be valid is absurd. This is outrageous. I am willing to defend the sanctity of marriage.
Michael R Perkins
  • Mar 14 2021
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I have learned through research and personal experience that American priests widely presume a troubled marriage is invalid, and the manner in which they pastor is a direct reflection of that. I was married in the Church and both of us are Catholic. We have children and were married 10 yrs before a separation. We have no obvious impediment, so a lawful investigation with morally certaint proof would be absolutely necessary. I have studied impediments and Rome's teachings on matters, along with a history of admonishment towards the U.S. for misinterpreting canonical impediments. Fr. Cormac Burke has provided a rich resource of knowledge and case examples on his website. I have been told by several priests and Catholics they are sure my marriage is invalid, and one even being our Defender of the Bond! It is very unlawful for a DOB to even assure a spouse this, let alone only after a 30 minute talk with myself. He even encouraged me to find another wife, and told me I should not teach my children about the permanence of marriage. I have written the Vicar of Clergy and the Bishop about this and other unlawful pastoral behavior committed by many priests. It has been completely dismissed! I am telling you that most priests do not care about unlawful behavior unless they can bend it to apply to an annulment decree. This makes their work so much easier, while appearing like champions of the law and matrimony. If my marriage ever goes to the tribunal, you can be certain I will appeal to Rome. Rome needs to hear these cases.
John Femino
  • Feb 3 2021
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I'm a male who just finished a 7 year ordeal of trying to fight an annulment. I'm in the Boston area. the system is corrupt from head to toe. My own advocate hid from me my own witness statements. Those statements would have protected the marriage. There is so much negative; I just don't have time to spell it out at the moment. As far as I can conclude, the church is just a corrupt financial business with no concerns how they are negatively affecting families relationships, and the children. As a result, my faith is at risk.
Patsy Koenig
  • Jun 25 2020
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To stop the misuse of Canon 1095, the Canon Law itself needs to be re-written. That is, the "loose canon 1095" needs tighter language.
Al
  • Apr 28 2020
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Grave lack of discernment is often used too. King Henry VIII would have gotten an annulment or two today (he was married 6 times - divorced 2 wives, beheaded 2 wives, one died naturally, and was married to 6th when he died). Bottom line, this is another weapon against marriage and family. Kids are really hurt when parents remarry as demonstrated in Primal Loss by Leila Miller. It affects my kids.
Lisa Anderson
  • Apr 25 2020
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Just to clarify advocates have been trained in this one aspect of Canon law. They are not Canon Lawyers or “experts” in Canon Law in general.
    Mary's Advocates
    • Apr 28 2020
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    Hi Lisa,
    Thanks for the observation.

    The law itself delimits who can serve in the role of "advocate." If an advocate is RECOMMENDED to a defendant in an annulment case by the Assistant Director of the Tribunal, I imagine the Tribunal would require the advocate to be expert in the law about annulment procedure and grounds for annulment. In the defendant's complaint to the Signatura, he provided proof that the advocate was neither.

    See Dignitas Connubii, Art. 105 – § 1.
    The procurator and advocate must be of good reputation; in addition the advocate must be a Catholic, unless the Bishop Moderator allows otherwise, and a doctor in canon law, or otherwise truly expert, and approved by the same Bishop (cf. can. 1483).

    See Canon 1483.
    Can. 1483 The procurator and advocate must have attained their majority and be of good repute. The advocate is also to be a catholic unless the diocesan Bishop permits otherwise, a doctor in canon law or otherwise well qualified, and approved by the same Bishop.

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