[…]judgment concerning essential matrimonial rights and obligations of permanence, fidelity and openness to children at the time of their wedding. Yet these same couples, despite allegedly incriminating evidence of contractual incapacity for ten or twenty years, can suddenly transmogrify into having adequate capacity for a second marriage! Realistically, the very […]
[…] Two possibilities remain for the child of divorce. One is the “bubble wrap method”: wrapping and forgetting, keeping one’s memories in check with diversion and distraction. The other is to face the wound that is really there and discover the Love that continues to hold one in being. p. 18. […]